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Safety Tips

SubhaDristi.com aims to provide you with a safe & secure environment in which you search, find life partner. Our Customer Relations Team ensures that every profile on SubhaDristi.com is screened for irrelevant and/or inappropriate content.

However, we are limited to actions in ensuring the safety & privacy of your profile. Therefore, it is also necessary for you to exercise some simple precautions for your privacy & for a safe and secure online matrimony experience.

To protect your privacy, we suggest some simple guidelines to you which help you in preventing you.

Do's:

Be Anonymous & Guard It!

  • Be in control of your online experience at all times. Try to remain completely anonymous until you fully trust that person.
  • Look for odd behavior or inconsistencies. Serious people will always respect your space and allow you to take your time to make a decision.
  • Ask a friend or relative to read all the emails you receive – because an unbiased observer can spot warning signs you missed.
  • Stop communicating with anyone who pressures you for personal information like; photo, mailing address, mobile no, email address etc., or attempts in any way to trick you into revealing it.
  • You can use the Photo Request feature on SubhaDristi.com. As SubhaDristi.com offers free scanning & upload services to its members, there’s no reason someone shouldn’t be able to provide you a photo.
  • It's best to view several images of someone in various settings: like; casual, formal, indoor and outdoors. If all you hear are excuses about why you can't see a photo, consider that he or she has something to hide.
  • Use pre-paid mobile phone number or use local telephone blocking techniques to prevent your phone number from appearing in Caller ID. Only furnish your contact number when you feel completely trustable and have some background information about the other person.
  • If the person provides you a phone number with a strange area code, check it out to make sure it's not a charge number before you make the call.

Meet Only When You Think You Are READY!!!

  • Be in control when it comes to taking an online relationship to offline.
  • If you decide to arrange a meeting, you always have the right to change your mind. It's possible that your decision to keep the relationship at the anonymous level is based on a hunch that you can't logically explain. Trust yourself. Go with your instincts.

When You Do Meet, Do It At A Safe Place!

  • When you decide to meet face to face with someone for the first time, choose a public place (such as a shopping mall / restaurant / café / coffee shop) where many people are around and ensure your own transportation to and fro.
  • For the first meeting it is always good not to meet the other person alone, take a friend or relative along with you.
  • In case you decided to meet him/her alone leave the name, address and telephone number and photo of the person you are going to meet with your friend or family member and take a cellular phone along with you.
  • When you choose to meet offline, always tells a friend or family member where you are going to meet and when you will return.
  • Ask a lot of questions to him/her and watch for inconsistencies. This will help you detect liars & cons, and help you find out if you're compatible.
  • Pay attention to displays of anger, intense frustration or attempts to pressure or control you. Acting in a resentful manner, making demeaning or disrespectful comments, or any physically inappropriate behavior are all warning signs.
  • Involve your family or your close friends in your search for a life partner and do not take a decision unilaterally.

Beware of Money Scams!

  • Watch out for money scams. There are just too many con artists and scam artists around the world, and they are everywhere. While we ensure to scan and filter these profiles away, you also need to keep a watch and report for any abnormalities.
  • Beware of those who try to ask money from you for whatever reason. Remember a genuine person will not ask you for money in any circumstance. If someone asks you for money, use common sense and never give in to such requests. It would be safer to cut off the communication.
  • In case someone asks you for money report the situation to us.

Don’ts:

  • Don't provide your personal contact information like name, email address, home address, telephone numbers, mobile number, place of work or any other identifying information in your initial messages
  • Don't send your personal or contact information until you trust that person.
  • Don't send your personal or contact information until your instincts tell you that this is someone you can trust. You have all the time in the world to make a decision, believe us.

Call Up & Chat on The Phone !

  • Set up a separate email account for communicating. Trust your instincts and start by sharing only your email address and communicating solely via email.
  • A phone call can reveal much about a person's communication and social skills. Consider your security and do not reveal your personal phone number to a stranger.
  • Don't use signature lines in your emails that include your phone numbers, address or contact details.
  • Don't use your regular or official email id for communicating with a person you don't know well.
  • Never arrange for your potential match to pick you up or drop you at home.
  • Do not go to a secluded place or a movie or a lonely place alone at the first meeting.
  • Don't ignore the following behavior especially if it is without an acceptable explanation:
    • Provides inconsistent information about age, interests, appearance, marital status, profession, employment, etc.
    • Fails to provide direct answers to direct questions.
    • Never introduces you to friends, professional associates or family members.
    • Appears significantly different in person from his or her online personal
  • Take your own time to decide on a trustworthy person and pay careful attention along the way.
  • Be responsible about romance, and don't fall for the oldest con tricks of people who shower love and affection at the first instance and disappear later.
  • Don't become prematurely close to someone, even if that intimacy only occurs online.

Using your own good judgment is your best bet because ultimately you are responsible for your personal experience.
Trust your instincts and then move ahead with the right person!

If you do have an unpleasant experience you can always report it to the authorities.

Reporting about any attacks or threats:
Report any attacks or threats - Don't be embarrassed to report problems to the police. Remember, if you don't report them, the same thing could happen to someone else.

All said and done, you can certainly have a great experience at SubhaDristi.com, but just for these useful tips, which can come in handy for a better experience!
Hope you have a great time at SubhaDristi.com!